March 15, 2013
{Random Thoughts}
*As of now, I want a Keith Urban song played at my wedding; Making Memories Of Us or Your Everything.
*Speaking of Keith Urban... Listening to his music always makes me feel better!
*I really want to start my own magazine someday!
*My ringtone has been "Wide Open" by Jason Aldean for the past couple years, but I always leave my phone on silent.
*I have met some of the nicest people at concerts/tapings/fan club parties
*I update my bucket list quite frequently; I still need that hug from Keith Urban....
*It has always been one of my dreams to be on American Idol.
*PAUL JOLLEY JUST FOLLOWED ME ON TWITTER!! AH! and we totally had a conversation.
*I think if you follow someone on Instagram, and you are friends in real life, you should not be allowed to unfollow them! It's rude. And the same goes for Twitter.
*I have a sore throat, and I'm praying that I'm not getting sick again.
*I wish I would have pitched my reality show for my family to Ryan Seacrest the other night...Oh well, maybe some other time.
*I want to start making podcasts...Would anyone listen??
*I want to have a lifestyle blog/book someday!
That's all for now...Random enough for ya? Haha!
~Shelby
Moving On and Letting Go
"The kind of friendships we used to believe in. I miss that. And I miss you. I guess I just miss all of it."
~One Tree Hill~
My story is no different. I always thought that certain people would be in my life forever, and I'm a person who wants to hope for the best and believe that things will change, and yet they never do. I always hold on to the fact that maybe people will start to care again, and things will just fall back into place. But, maybe they haven't changed. Maybe I did. Or maybe they've always been this way, I'm just waking up to what I need to do. It's something I battle with in my mind a lot.
Maybe I'm just reflecting more, because I'm at that spot in my life that my friends and I used to talk and daydream about all the time. How would things in college be? How would everyone change? What kind of jobs would we have? Just the normal questions that you think about growing up. Now, we're in college, heading towards the lives we've always talked about, only this time we're not sharing the experiences together, we're just reading about them on Facebook and seeing pictures of it on Instagram; on the outside looking in. Sometimes, I wonder if it would be better if there weren't social media sites, where you're up to the minute on everything that you're being left out of, because you might not care as much if you didn't know. I know I would. I wouldn't know when people are getting together without me, and I wouldn't be aware of the fact that they seem to have time for others, and not me.
There comes a time when you just have to stop letting it get to you, and I stopped long ago, when I realized nothing was changing. But, I just find myself still missing them. That's normal, right? And I probably sound like a broken record when I say this, but I'm tired of the fact that the time most want to talk to me is when they need something or when it's convenient. Instead of wishing that our story has some really fantastic ending, I'll just hold onto the really incredible moments we had, and I guess that's the part of letting go that makes it so hard, the incredible moments are the things that I'll never be able to put into words and are what helped make me into the person I am today. I wish there was another way around it, or that there really was a way to stay "friends forever", instead of just beautiful memories.
“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”
― Nicholas Sparks
I saw this quote the other day, after having seen it several times before that, but I just needed to hear it again. This happens to everyone. I'm not the only one that has ever experienced this, so there's no reason to feel so down. The people that are in my life at this moment in time are here for a reason; God has brought people into my life whenever I've needed them, and I have to trust that. I might not see the reason why now, but further down the line, I'm sure I will.
That's all for now,
Shelby
March 12, 2013
Down The Road
This morning came extremely quick with the whole time changing deal. Carrie Underwood's "One Way Ticket" kept going off, until I finally got up and got ready. My mom made cinnamon rolls, so I ate while I finished putting on my makeup, then off to church we went. It was a beautiful day outside, and you could definitely tell spring was in the air.
Church was great, as always! I just wasn't in the most cheery of moods, which seems to have been going on lately, and I'm not sure why, but that's how its been. I felt a little more relieved after the message, which was dealing with commitment; how we should be in our relationship with Christ and others, which is definitely something I needed to hear. A reminder to be devoted, even when I might not necessarily feel like it.

When we left church, we decided to have lunch at the Steak&Grape, and some family friends ended up meeting us there, which was fun! It was great catching up with them and just having more company. It always makes for a fun afternoon.
When we finished lunch, we ended up going to Sweet Surrender, a local bakery shop, for their open house event! One of Oprah's favorite things in her magazine this month was their Lemon white chocolate cake, and they were having samples and other goodies, so we thought we'd check it out. They had tents set up with samples, lemonade, ice tea, and a big decorative cake, thanking Oprah for the recognition! It looked really fun and springy. I tried a slice of the cake, and it was delicious. Perfect for this time of year! We looked around the store a little while, and I found a shirt to wear to the Idol show on Wednesday, which I'm super excited about, then we left.
We came home for a bit after that, then my dad and I went driving. After last week's weirdness, I wasn't sure if I was really up for it, but knew I needed to just keep sticking with it. After I got behind the wheel, it's like I wasn't so freaked out anymore. It all started to feel more natural, and I think it's because I haven't been waiting so long in between. I was driving on the street without freaking out that cars were coming, and I couldn't help but think about how far I've come, even in just the little bit that I've been practicing. Am I ready to take freeways? NO! But, it might not be much longer, you never know. There was even a moment where some huge, ugly truck came into my lane, which made me have to slow down, in case he were going faster! My dad thought I handled it very nicely. There were also cars passing around me, but what are you going to do? We were gone for a little over an hour, I think, then I decided I was ready to go home.
I thought I was going to hang out with a friend, but that didn't happen, so I just kept cleaning my room. I was going to Sam's Club with my parents, but they were closed, so we ended up driving out to a park clear across town. It's a gorgeous little park, where you can see the river, surrounded by mountains, and is probably one of my favorite places in my city. There's usually no one around; it's so peaceful and quiet, and allows you to get away from the chaos. We took some pictures and spent a few minutes taking in the scenery, then got back in the car to head back down to the city. It was the perfect time to go; sunset. I easily could have spent several hours there, just being still and listening for inspiration, but maybe some other time. One of the things I'll miss when I'm out of the house and on my own is the random trips I'll take with my parents. I love how they're usually up for an adventure as much as I am, or they're willing to go along with it, if it's something I want to do. It's something I take for granted A LOT, but I'm learning to appreciate more and more.
By that time, we were pretty hungry, so we went to Chili's. It took a little while to get a table, but we were finally able to sit down. There was a problem in the kitchen, so the food took a little longer, but we had chips and salsa to keep us occupied for awhile! HA! It was a great way to end the day.
Awesome weekend! Now, to see what the rest of this week holds...
~Shelby :)
Church was great, as always! I just wasn't in the most cheery of moods, which seems to have been going on lately, and I'm not sure why, but that's how its been. I felt a little more relieved after the message, which was dealing with commitment; how we should be in our relationship with Christ and others, which is definitely something I needed to hear. A reminder to be devoted, even when I might not necessarily feel like it.
When we left church, we decided to have lunch at the Steak&Grape, and some family friends ended up meeting us there, which was fun! It was great catching up with them and just having more company. It always makes for a fun afternoon.
When we finished lunch, we ended up going to Sweet Surrender, a local bakery shop, for their open house event! One of Oprah's favorite things in her magazine this month was their Lemon white chocolate cake, and they were having samples and other goodies, so we thought we'd check it out. They had tents set up with samples, lemonade, ice tea, and a big decorative cake, thanking Oprah for the recognition! It looked really fun and springy. I tried a slice of the cake, and it was delicious. Perfect for this time of year! We looked around the store a little while, and I found a shirt to wear to the Idol show on Wednesday, which I'm super excited about, then we left.
I thought I was going to hang out with a friend, but that didn't happen, so I just kept cleaning my room. I was going to Sam's Club with my parents, but they were closed, so we ended up driving out to a park clear across town. It's a gorgeous little park, where you can see the river, surrounded by mountains, and is probably one of my favorite places in my city. There's usually no one around; it's so peaceful and quiet, and allows you to get away from the chaos. We took some pictures and spent a few minutes taking in the scenery, then got back in the car to head back down to the city. It was the perfect time to go; sunset. I easily could have spent several hours there, just being still and listening for inspiration, but maybe some other time. One of the things I'll miss when I'm out of the house and on my own is the random trips I'll take with my parents. I love how they're usually up for an adventure as much as I am, or they're willing to go along with it, if it's something I want to do. It's something I take for granted A LOT, but I'm learning to appreciate more and more.
By that time, we were pretty hungry, so we went to Chili's. It took a little while to get a table, but we were finally able to sit down. There was a problem in the kitchen, so the food took a little longer, but we had chips and salsa to keep us occupied for awhile! HA! It was a great way to end the day.
Awesome weekend! Now, to see what the rest of this week holds...
~Shelby :)
Things I'm Loving
Safe Haven/Josh Duhamel/Julianne Hough:
I can definitely say this is at the very top of things I am obsessed with at the moment. This movie was phenomenal; I just saw it for the third time, and loved it as much. I have always LOVED Josh Duhamel. As for Julianne Hough, she really impressed me! I've never been a huge fan (other than when she was on Dancing With The Stars), but that did change with this movie...She is quite the actress to pull a character like this off with such depth, and make it believable. GO. SEE. THIS. MOVIE.
I re-read the book and am noticed some BIG differences, but I also think the movie still did the story line itself justice. Just like all of the other movies he has done in the past.
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| Movie trailer! |
Sweet tea:
I love sweet tea! But, I never really used to drink it unless we were in Nashville. Well, I finally started drinking it more when Chick-Fil-A came to town. Oh, but then Lucille's came along...and that took the award for everything. Not only do they have the best sweet tea, but also bread and fried pickles. YUM!
Sweet Lemon (online) Magazine:
I found this one day through a blog I read, The College Prepster! She was one of the editors on this and had mentioned it several times, but I didn't start paying attention to it until recently, and then I was so inspired by it. There are so many great articles from girls who are great businesswoman, have graduated from college, and are really making a dent in the world. There are also just a lot of fun pages, like clothes, interviews, etc. It has even inspired me to start working on my own online magazine. I don't know that I'll ever actually do anything with it, but I'm brainstorming more with it right now.
Boy Meets World:
I have never, ever stopped loving this show! It has been with me all throughout my life basically, and it's one of those shows that I will show my kids someday. I almost think I appreciate it more now since I'm older and can relate more with their college days and all of the dealings that getting older has brought them. After meeting Ben Savage, I also just wanted to start watching again, and to also get into the mood for Girl Meets World, as if I need to "get into it" any more than I am right now. I record them on ABC Family, and sometimes just spend an entire afternoon catching up on all of them. Good times!
Signote App:
I've had this app for quite some time now, and just recently realized that I haven't been using it to its fullest capabilities. It's a great "artsy" app that allows you to add decorations to pictures, like hearts and smiley faces that look hand-drawn, or you can even do your own by adding a separate layer, which is extremely cool. You have to mess around with it a bit, but it's definitely worth it, and I believe it was free.
Ian Somerhalder:
Ian is always one of my favorite things, but I thought why not add him to the list once again, just for fun?
| Here are a couple of great interviews I found! And here! |
Lately, I've been spending a lot of time on YouTube again, finding haul and lifestyle videos, which has inspired me to start doing more of my own again. Some of my favorites are Catrific, MoreCatrific, IAmMrBillabong, and KalebNation. Also, my friend Ceci's channel. I just love seeing and learning about other people and how they live; it inspires me to do what I do and love what I love, if that makes any sense.
Parenthood:
I just love this show! I love my family and I love shows about family (they help me not miss family as much when we're not all together), especially like this one. It's so real and raw; it's what a real family looks and acts like. They don't always get along, but they still have each other's backs in the end; I love all of the different relationship elements; aunts and uncles, nephews and nieces, grandparents and grandkids, parents and kids, etc. And I love their family dinners! I would love to have those every night; there would never be a dull moment. If this show doesn't tug at your heartstrings, there is something wrong with you.
Justin Timberlake:
I've always loved Justin, but his new style is just really making me love him all over again. Suit and Tie just makes me want to rock out in the car and have fun, and I'm really digging Mirrors too. Justin is BACK and better than ever.
American Idol:
If you didn't catch my last post, I am LOVING this season of Idol. It's probably the quickest I've ever gotten into a season, actually. There's so much talent and they all seem like genuinely nice people. These are my favorite
Lemon White Chocolate Cake:
Apparently one of Oprah's favorite things this month in her magazine is a sweet treat from a local bakery of ours in town, Sweet Surrender. After having a bite yesterday at the open house for it, I can definitely see why. It's so tasty and refreshing; it's just enough lemon and icing=delicious. It's perfect for Spring gatherings, especially for Easter afternoon.
So, that pretty much sums up the things I'm loving right now! What are some of your favorite things? Let me know in the comments below or on Twitter-@ShelbyN92 :)
That's all for now,
Shelby
March 11, 2013
Saturday!
Yesterday was a really strange Saturday. I slept in, my mom and I made pancakes for breakfast around 11, then I spent most of the day watching TV (Boy Meets World), trying to do homework, spending time online and being incredibly bored. I finally got ready, then when my dad came home from work, my parents and I had dinner. We had dinner at a bbq restaurant, then drove around town, looking for something to do. Not much came up, so we ended up grabbing dessert from McDonald's and coming home to play Yahtzee and watch Jeopardy! HAHAHA. For some reason, it just sounds funnier out loud. Here I am, 21, love spending my time with my parents and at home, while most 21 year olds are out doing crazy and wild things. You know what? I'm not ashamed of it one bit and I wouldn't change a thing.
It was one of the greatest nights ever! We were laughing hysterically and not worrying about anything else, we were just living in the moment. It was one of those things that I know I'm going to look back on and miss when I have a family of my own someday. In a way, I already miss it, if that makes sense.
When we were finished with our games, I got ready for bed, watched Justin Timberlake on SNL, then hit the hay. It was probably too late with the time change, but I managed.
It was a great night!
That's all for now,
Shelby
It was one of the greatest nights ever! We were laughing hysterically and not worrying about anything else, we were just living in the moment. It was one of those things that I know I'm going to look back on and miss when I have a family of my own someday. In a way, I already miss it, if that makes sense.
That's all for now,
Shelby
March 10, 2013
Daily Nonsense
The rest of the week was pretty uneventful, really. I just hung out at home, and waited for Friday once again to get out of the house. And I did.
Friday:
I was able to sleep in, have hot tea, and just take my time getting ready. A little later, my mom and I ran to the post office so I could mail letters to the American Idol contestants, which has been a tradition of mine for the past few years, and this time, I actually got them out quite a bit early.
We ran a couple errands, then had lunch at Olive Garden, then ran to Walmart and Payless. We swung by our house for a few minutes, then went to the mall so mom could find something to wear for Easter. Although, by the time we got there, I was starting to feel SO sick again, so we weren't there for very long. I was trying to get out of there as fast as possible.
We came home, and I tried to take it easy the rest of the night. It was a pretty chill night, which was nice. Then, one of my friends offered us tickets to go with her to Idol next week....SO EXCITED! Oh! and then, Monica Potter (Parenthood) responded back to me and FOLLOWED me! She has over 18,000 followers and only follows 200 and something...That's pretty cool! She seems like the sweetest person ever! I'd love to meet her someday :)
So, I had a really hard time sleeping that night with so much excitement buzzing around in my mind. I could barely contain long enough to fall asleep, but eventually I did.
That's all for now,
Shelby
| I was on the Idol homepage! :o |
Friday:
I was able to sleep in, have hot tea, and just take my time getting ready. A little later, my mom and I ran to the post office so I could mail letters to the American Idol contestants, which has been a tradition of mine for the past few years, and this time, I actually got them out quite a bit early.
We ran a couple errands, then had lunch at Olive Garden, then ran to Walmart and Payless. We swung by our house for a few minutes, then went to the mall so mom could find something to wear for Easter. Although, by the time we got there, I was starting to feel SO sick again, so we weren't there for very long. I was trying to get out of there as fast as possible.
We came home, and I tried to take it easy the rest of the night. It was a pretty chill night, which was nice. Then, one of my friends offered us tickets to go with her to Idol next week....SO EXCITED! Oh! and then, Monica Potter (Parenthood) responded back to me and FOLLOWED me! She has over 18,000 followers and only follows 200 and something...That's pretty cool! She seems like the sweetest person ever! I'd love to meet her someday :)
So, I had a really hard time sleeping that night with so much excitement buzzing around in my mind. I could barely contain long enough to fall asleep, but eventually I did.
That's all for now,
Shelby
American Idol Top 10
I absolutely loved this reveal show; I felt like there were enough new elements to keep it different, and they kept the ball rolling with everything, so it felt like it moved along quicker, where sometimes it just feels like, "get on with it, Ryan!" I liked how they split the guys and girls, told them who was going through, then gave them a chance to wrap their minds around it, before going out in front of the audience to perform their song of choice. Also, can we talk about how compassionate Ryan seems since he's been dating Julianne?? He seems so much more relaxed than in the first several seasons.
To me, it was so cool when those screen doors slid open; seeing families' reactions to their kids getting through and the contestants' faces, as well, to know that they're one step closer to achieving their dream. I couldn't help but tear up.
Here's my recap of the show. First, it was the guys.
Paul Jolley~ Woo! So happy! I really love his voice ( I mean this in the best way that he has almost one of those tortured artists sounds, like when he sings it's coming from his gut and you know exactly how he feels), his southern charm, and his story. He seems like a nice guy with that country soul, and I really enjoy getting to see him grow as the competition goes. He has that star quality, but he'll adapt to it more and more. He is definitely one of my favorites.
Burnell Taylor~ I like him! I think he has a good voice, he has his own sense of style. This works for me. He seems likable too, which is a big deal to me.
Curtis Finch Jr.~ Not a big fan; reminds me too much of Joshua Ledet, who I ended up really liking. So, for me, it's just not anything original, but that could change by the end of the season. I hope to be wowed.
Devin Velez~ I didn't really remember him much when he first sang in Vegas, but after he did his first performance over there, I thought he was incredible. The way he went into singing Spanish, made it seem so effortless, and it sounded beautiful. I was a little worried he might start to do that every time, so I was a little on the fence, but I think he has such a powerful voice that it'll carry him through.
When it came to the last spot, my mom and I were on the edge of the couch, almost literally biting our nails, because Lazaro hadn't made it through. But, we were also pulling for Nick. I love that he had that whole singer/songwriter vibe going on. He's also 29, so it was his last shot. So, we were pulling for either of them, and then....
Lazaro Arbos~ As soon as I saw Lazaro's first audition and his backstory, I was really connected with him. At first, I was rooting for him because of how much he had overcome, and then he opened his mouth. I was completely floored by what he could do. It just goes to show you what a lifesaver music truly is. You can hear his story in his voice and the songs that he sings. His confidence has grown week after week, and last week's performance blew me away with how he owned the stage. It was a different side to him that we hadn't seen. He's my other favorite guy.
Then, just as we were able to breathe a sigh of relief that most of the guys we'd wanted made it, it was time to take a deep breath for the girls.
Janelle Arthur~ I really like Janelle. I think she's sweet and fun; reminds me a bit of Kellie Pickler, and like Mariah said, is just the all American girl. I think she has a good voice, but I just don't know if the songs have been strong enough for her yet. She really reminds me of classic country-the days of Tammy Wynette and Patsy Cline, which I love, because that's not around much anymore. I think if she were to sing more of those old time-y songs and make them current, she'd do incredible.
Candice Glover~ I was actually pretty surprised with this one! I liked her, but wasn't sure that she would make it through. I was really impressed with the song she did after she was into the top 10, so I'm excited to see how she does.
Angie Miller~ After people had been chosen and Angie's name still hadn't been called, we were starting to get worried, but as soon as she was called and stepped onto that stage, I was at ease. She has been my favorite from the beginning, so it was taking everything in me not to blubber like an idiot. I was holding back so many tears (especially because it's my favorite Beyonce song-SO powerful), and then I saw Keith crying and talking about she makes him emotional when she sings, and that just really didn't help. Basically...She's incredible and I'm pretty sure she will win the title. If not, she won't have a hard time getting a record deal.
Amber Holcomb~ I think this girl has some CRAZY vocals. I wasn't crazy about her first performance in Vegas, but I think that was more to do with song choice than anything. This week, she KILLED that Whitney Houston song and made it look so easy. So not fair! HA! I think she really shined this time around, and is only going to get better from here. She definitely has a powerhouse voice! And she always seems to have a smile on her face.
Kree Harrison~ FINALLY, they call her name (is my first thought). I absolutely love her! She is another true artist in a different way; her voice tells such a deep story when she belts it out, and she just wears her heart on her sleeve. I love that she is who she is and knows what kind of music she wants to sing. To me, she's one of those dark horses; she's incredible, yet quiet, which usually works in a lot of cases on Idol, and I'm pretty sure it'll work in her favor as well. She seems to have quite a large fan group, myself included, and I know they are hardcore voters! She has such a confidence and stage presence that just comes so naturally that it's ridiculous. I know she's going to do great.
So, all of my favorite girls made it and so did most of my guys! I'm really loving this season already and I can't wait to see how well everyone else does as the season goes on, because a lot of times, they surprise you. There is so much talent and it seems like a really great group of people.
I am SO BEYOND EXCITED for next week, and not just because I'm anxious to hear what they sing (and I am), but because I will be in the live studio audience at CBS when they show tapes! I've never been to a regular taping, just two finales (not that I'm complaining at all there), so I'm incredibly excited that it happens to be the very first taping of the top 10. It'll be interesting to hear how everyone sounds live, and will make it a bit easier when it comes to voting later on.
That's all for now,
Shelby
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